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Conversation with Nora Bateson 2,085

• you're just it you're just down the double bind around at that point the conversation's
• so but bringing in a lot more context undoes those double binds and makes it impossible so that's been fascinating
• and also just straight up intensity and so that's how you get the double bind and the way that you unstick it as you

Deep Code Dialogos: Session 4 w/ Jordan Hall, Nora Bateson, Greg Thomas, Rich Bartlett, and more 2,046

• she talks about her father's concept of the double bind and certainly i think today when we talk
• we got double triple quadruple binds but as far as the double bind for those who may not know it's a
• the child that's a double bind for the child it's like wait a second if it's wrong

Praxis to Collective Wisdom w/ Bonnitta Roy, Nora Bateson, and Ria Baeck 1,861

• here too is it a contradiction is it a paradox is it a double bind is it a dilemma right there's all sorts

What Gets Left Behind in the Hallway of Hallways: Session 1 w/ Nora Bateson 1,834

• be playing with in these four sessions is the theory of the double bind and i think what you are expressing taps into

In The Bubbling Quiet, a dialogue with Nora Bateson 1,662

• this point it might be something of a double bind i was just gonna say damned if we do and damned if we don't we are
• if we do and damned if we don't we are in a double bind and but what's exciting is the tension okay that creative
• is the tension okay that creative tension in this double bind is filled with possibility so you know to to take
• other aspects of ourselves you know but but we get back into that double bind territory where i'm feeling this link
• to do that in such a way that reference is also the double bind of really necessity because the thing is we can
• dangerous not to we are far more dangerous it's again it's a double bind it seems something that's come up for me

Unanswered Questions w/ Nora Bateson 1,452

• you do you understand no about double binds so a double blind is a double bind is a
• do you understand no about double binds so a double blind is a double bind is a great theory one of my dad's there is a
• it ruins the ecology if we either way you turn we're in a double bind so one of the things that
• of the things that that you can do in a double bind is to bring in another context so instead of

Nora Bateson, familjeterapikongress 2018 808

• this is you know in my dad's theory of the double bind you know in order to live we have to take part in a lot of
• if we don't we die that's a double bind folks and how do you get out of a double bind okay a
• that's a double bind folks and how do you get out of a double bind okay a double bind is what happens when you get
• you get out of a double bind okay a double bind is what happens when you get two contexts that are pulling at each
• pulling at each other and the process of getting through double binds has to do with a couple of things one is creative

What Gets Left Behind in the Hallway of Hallways: Session 4 w/ Nora Bateson 768

• very good question she's asking and the double bind brings us to thinking about
• uh now we've done some stuff we did some double bind we did some trans contextual work we did some abstraction

What Gets Left Behind in the Hallway of Hallways: Session 2 w/ Nora Bateson 717

• of syndromes he's talking about double binds it seems that both those whose life is enriched
• theory called the double bind and actually bring these two notions together

What Gets Left Behind in the Hallway of Hallways: Session 3 w/ Nora Bateson 687

• that we are living within and this is called the double bind okay the double wine is a theory it was
• in multiple contexts and when you do those double binds and maybe they're more than double sometimes
• the let me explain how it works okay so what happens in a double bind is that you can't win
• at the same time so i'll give you some examples of double binds um and uh there's that the classic
• if i were to translate that into the way that double bind came out in my household it would look like this
• um i would go on to say that there are double binds absolutely everywhere uh the double blind of of our
• going back to normal that's another double bind um if you look at basically
• thinking it's the double bind these things are everywhere i would say
• that uh you know in our own family we had a double bind just this week where uh my step-kids
• that's what we're talking about now the thing about double binds is that even though they were born into an
• these things can go in many ways okay a double bind can break your heart a double bind can
• a double bind can break your heart a double bind can be an addiction okay i think for a lot
• that kind of a thing addiction is very much in the double bind realm um i don't smoke cigarettes by the way
• so let's talk about that uh how do you get out of a double bind what do you do to get out of a double
• and still is some kind of um double bind superhero and um you got to be careful what you
• trevor understood the double bind when he found himself in one it wasn't as painful for him he
• he was so proud and you know he had a real double bind that he cut and brought it home and he said yeah
• on a 12 year old kid because had trevor not known a good double bind when he saw one
• and that's the big thing if you can recognize a double bind to begin with you're less likely to get caught in the
• the high level distraction because it's a double bind when the stakes are high and and so you can get really
• get separated from each other so double binds um can also
• back and forth like that but when you're in a double bind it's more like
• so nora you mentioned one of the ways to get out of a double bind is to bring in more context multiple contexts
• context for them to help them resolve double binds within their lives i would say
• it gives me an interesting thing to explore like what double binds am i resolving for people if
• the morality and even the beauty and also the various double binds and trade-offs there are in our relationship
• this food double bind i think that it's really um
• i think that the other side of the food double bind is actually some kind of notion of relevance